Talk to her

If you’ve been diagnosed with an STI, or even just think you have one, let your recent sex partners know so they can get checked. This reduces the number of STIs in the community and reduces your chances of getting it again.

This might be a difficult conversation to have with someone but by taking care of yourself and your partners makes for a healthier GLBT community. The discomfort you feel in having a conversation may pale in comparison to the effects an STI may make on your partners health.

Some ways to start this converstion include:

"I'm worried I might have XXX. I'd hate for you to have it too. Will you come and get a test with me."

"You and your health are very important to me, there might be a chance i have XXX."

"I'm getting a test and i think it would be a good idea for you to get one too."

Your partner may have a range of reactions. She might be angry, upset, relieved because she was worried too, or she may be calm and accepting.

Being able to have an open, honest conversation about all of the aspects of your relationship is important and healthy.

More info

Contact: ACON’s Lesbian and Same-Sex Attracted Women’s Health Project

Tel: (02) 9206 2000
Free Call: 1800 063 060
Hearing Impaired: (02) 9283 2088

Email: women@acon.org.au

Web: See girl2girl.info for more information on STI’s and STI testing